Seeing someone you love hurting because of a divorce is tough. You want to help, to offer comfort, but sometimes the things we say in an attempt to be supportive can come out all wrong. Here are some common phrases to avoid to make sure you’re truly being the support system your loved one needs….
Ideally, parents want to be a safe haven for their kids, even well into adulthood. But if your adult children don’t feel comfortable confiding in you, it’s important to look inward and try to understand why. This isn’t about blaming yourself, but a chance to self-reflect and start encouraging a more open and trusting dynamic….
We all make excuses sometimes (hey, we’re only human). However, some people take it to an entirely new level. Nothing is ever their fault, and there’s always an elaborate explanation for why they couldn’t follow through, messed up, or let you down. Understanding why people do this might help you cope (or know when to…
Some of a narcissist’s most toxic behaviors include controlling and stalking their victims. They’re most likely to do this when you enforce a no-contact policy, which inevitably leaves them feeling angry and powerless. Since they’re obsessed with controlling you, they might start tracking your every move on social media. Keep an eye out! 1. They…
Standing up for yourself isn’t always easy. It depends on the situation, the person taking advantage of you and your instinctive reaction to what they say. Defend yourself more easily by checking out these comebacks for those who always try to take advantage of you. You’ll save your energy without the conversation exploding into an…
Life has a way of sneaking up on us, doesn’t it? One day you’re young with your whole life ahead, and the next, you blink and a few decades have gone by. Often, it’s only with hindsight that we gain clarity on what truly matters. As a result, there are some common wake-up calls people…
Sure, looks matter to an extent, but true attractiveness is about way more than physical appearance. There are certain qualities and actions that can instantly make you more magnetic and appealing to other people. Stop focusing on superficial stuff, explore what really draws people in on a deeper level, and start doing these things. 1….
We all have that inner critic, that nagging voice in our heads that loves to put us down. Sometimes it’s so convincing that we actually accept its harsh judgments as truth. There’s just one problem: that voice is often lying. Here are a few common ways your inner critic tries to sabotage you. Once you…
Some people seem to have a knack for getting what they want in life. They land their dream job, negotiate like a pro, and have a way of making their goals happen. It’s not magic – there are specific traits and habits you can start developing to move yourself in that same direction. Here’s what…
You know that friend who’s a bit quieter in social settings, the one who listens more than they talk? Maybe they’re even the one sometimes mistaken for being stuck-up or uninterested. If you’ve ever wondered what’s going on inside their head, I’ve got you covered. There are a lot of misconceptions about shy people, and…
