We all love a bit of self-confidence, but sometimes that swagger can slip into full-blown smugness. It’s a fine line — 0ne minute you’re feeling good about your achievements, the next you’re the person everyone’s rolling their eyes at. So how do you know if your self-assurance is turning into a major turn-off? Here are…
Incompetence isn’t just about lacking skills or knowledge. It’s often a collection of habits, sometimes subtle, that chip away at our effectiveness and growth. Here are some daily patterns that might be holding us back, not to judge, but to spark a bit of self-reflection. 1. You shy away from feedback, especially the critical kind….
We’ve all said things we regret, and sometimes, those words can cut deeper than we intend. In the heat of the moment, it’s easy to blurt out phrases that seem harmless to us but can leave lasting wounds on others. Here are some seemingly innocent phrases that are actually pretty toxic — and why they’re…
We all look back on past relationships and cringe at the things we let slide. Love can be blind, and sometimes, we ignore those glaring red flags that should have sent us running for the hills. But hey, hindsight is 20/20, right? Let’s take a walk down memory lane and revisit some of those relationship…
We all want to be helpful and supportive, but sometimes people take advantage of our kindness. It can be hard to tell when you’re being used, especially if you’re naturally giving. However, it’s important to recognize the signs so you can protect yourself and your energy. Here are some red flags that might indicate someone’s…
Of course, you want to feel like you’ve got things sorted, and you’re doing okay in life — we all do. However, sometimes this could cause you to do things that give you a false sense of security. It’s like when you try to control your partner so that you feel more secure in your…
Although you might be drawn to the sexy and brooding person in the bar, getting to know them can feel like trying to climb Mount Everest without oxygen. While it might initially seem exciting, it’s only a matter of time before it makes others feel totally drained by how much they have to try to…
There are various reasons why you might feel the need to censor yourself. For instance, maybe you’re trying to impress someone you’re dating or fit in with a group of friends. Although it might help you to gain others’ approval, it’s not real. Hiding who you really are behind a mask means you’ll never get…
Wouldn’t it be great if you could spot a narcissist before they entered your life and wrecked it? Some zodiac signs have more narcissistic tendencies than others, so knowing someone’s astrological sign could help you figure out their motives — and get out if they’re all about manipulating you. Here are the most narcissistic zodiac…
If you can’t help a friend who’s asking you for a favor or you don’t want to accept their social invite, you might feel anxious about saying “no.” To deal with the awkwardness, maybe you resort to explaining yourself so you appeal to the person’s sympathy or maintain their approval after rejecting them. This can…
