Healthy debate is great, but the type of person we’re talking about isn’t interested in exchanging ideas – they’re committed to the illusion of being the smartest person in the room. It’s more about ego than genuine curiosity. Spotting their tactics helps you disengage quickly and gracefully. 1. They dismiss opposing opinions out of hand….
Listen, sometimes you gotta be understanding. People make mistakes, have bad days, or are genuinely clueless about how they’re coming across. But if you have strong self-esteem, there are certain behaviors you simply won’t stand for. This isn’t about being difficult, it’s about protecting your energy and not tolerating toxic vibes. 1. You refuse to…
Awkward situations happen to all of us at some point or another. Tripping in public, saying the wrong thing, that weird thing your stomach does at the worst possible time — life can be super embarrassing. Instead of letting it ruin your day, try finding the humor. It can lighten the mood and makes for…
Men, if you’re using any of these 18 phrases, it’s time for a serious reality check. These cringe-worthy statements reveal a lack of self-awareness at best, and blatant sexism or immaturity at worst. They need to be retired from your vocabulary immediately. No excuses, no defensiveness — it’s time for some honest reflection and a…
Healing is possible, even if it feels hard sometimes. You are worthy of love, respect, and a fulfilling life. Think of this as a journey of becoming the loving parent figure that little you always needed, but for your adult self now. It takes time and effort, but oh, so worth it! 1. Recognize how…
Relationships are hard enough without choosing a partner who adds unnecessary drama and toxicity. It’s good to have standards and protect your own peace! Let’s break down some of the types of women who are likely to create more headaches than happiness in the long run. 1. The woman who plays the victim in every…
Seeing someone you love hurting because of a divorce is tough. You want to help, to offer comfort, but sometimes the things we say in an attempt to be supportive can come out all wrong. Here are some common phrases to avoid to make sure you’re truly being the support system your loved one needs….
Ideally, parents want to be a safe haven for their kids, even well into adulthood. But if your adult children don’t feel comfortable confiding in you, it’s important to look inward and try to understand why. This isn’t about blaming yourself, but a chance to self-reflect and start encouraging a more open and trusting dynamic….
We all make excuses sometimes (hey, we’re only human). However, some people take it to an entirely new level. Nothing is ever their fault, and there’s always an elaborate explanation for why they couldn’t follow through, messed up, or let you down. Understanding why people do this might help you cope (or know when to…
Some of a narcissist’s most toxic behaviors include controlling and stalking their victims. They’re most likely to do this when you enforce a no-contact policy, which inevitably leaves them feeling angry and powerless. Since they’re obsessed with controlling you, they might start tracking your every move on social media. Keep an eye out! 1. They…
