We’ve got to stop calling traits either “good” or “bad.” It’s really how you use them that matters. So, if someone calls you jealous/lazy/unfocused, don’t let it get to you or define you in a negative way. Rather, try to see the positive things in your personality traits so you can do great things with…
A competitive streak can drive you to achieve great things, but when it turns into a win-at-all-costs obsession, it can rob your life of joy. Striving to be the best at everything, stressing over every little misstep, or comparing yourself to others is no way to live. If you’re tired of the relentless race to…
We’ve all encountered those judgy types who just can’t help pointing out what’s wrong with everyone and everything. These constant critics are exhausting to deal with, and their behavior can zap the joy out of any interaction. If you find yourself rolling your eyes or biting your tongue around one of these negative nitpickers, you’ll…
If you’re highly sensitive, or you know someone who is, you’ll get that certain things hit harder for them than for others. It’s not just a mild annoyance, either – some situations, people, or environments can seriously throw them off balance. Here are just a few of the things that really bother highly sensitive people….
Spending time solo isn’t just inevitable, it’s healthy and actually something you should enjoy. If you find that you’re struggling when you’re on your own, it could be because you’re feeling isolated and alone. Here’s how to tell if you’re lonely and what to do about it so you can start feeling better. 1. You…
As a writer, I’m really thoughtful when it comes to my words. I try not to speak without thinking, especially since I realize that even if I don’t mean any offense or harm with the things I say, other people might feel differently. Obviously, it’s a work in progress — I still fly off the…
People who are good communicators and conversationalists crave more than superficial exchanges. They’re the ones who light up at the mention of a thought-provoking topic and will dive right in to peel back the layers to muse on life’s biggest questions. If you’re one of them—or know someone who is—you’ll know they all have these…
Shouting at your reflection in the mirror, telling yourself you’ve got this and need to stop being a baby, isn’t going to help you take stress in your stride. No, really. You might know someone who deals with stress and doesn’t let the pressure get in their way and wonder how they manage to do…
Pretty much no one will openly admit that they’re not a good person—in fact, most people think they’re doing a great job at being decent. However, if you have any of these 35 habits (and especially if you have more than one), you have a long way to go. It may be time to do…
You have so much love to give and you just want people in your life who are willing to give as much as they take. However, for some reason, you always seem to attract broken people and you just can’t figure out why. While there’s nothing wrong with you, per se, and you’re not doing…
