It’s an unsettling feeling to know you’re being watched. If you’ve dated a narcissist, you’ve probably experienced firsthand how they want to control and manipulate you (like by tracking your movements). What’s worse is that their stalker-like behavior can continue even after the relationship has ended. But, why do they do this? Here are 15…
It’s hard to be an adult sometimes. Between bills, work, relationships, and that vague sense something’s missing in the fridge, it can feel overwhelming. But some people manage to navigate this chaos with surprising grace. They aren’t necessarily rich or have it all figured out, but they possess a quiet competence that makes the daily…
We think it’s the big stuff that makes a reputation – talent, success, charisma. But often, it’s the tiny, overlooked habits that leave the most lasting impression. Whether you’re job hunting, navigating office politics, or simply want to be known as a good person, these micro-behaviors reveal more than you think. Some will boost how…
It’s not always easy to spot someone who’s untrustworthy, which is why you’ve got to keep an eye out for the surprising signs that they’re going to bring deception and unhappiness into your life. Here are 16 habits that untrustworthy people tend to have in common. Some will surprise you! 1. They’re suspicious of others….
I’m from Georgia—the backwoods, farming part of Georgia. (Atlanta makes me feel like I’m in outer space.) My grandmother’s yard was nothing but green rolling hills, flocks of annoying chickens and guineas, and the ever-present dinner guests who were wearing camouflage overalls and spitting tobacco. It’s endearing, truly… except for the tobacco part. However, I…
Narcissists give the impression that they’re confident and self-assured, but the reality is that they’re insecure and terrified of rejection. If you try to shatter the illusion they have of themselves and expose who they truly are, they can become angry or enraged. That’s why you have to be careful about what you say to…
“You know there’s such thing as religious trauma,” my therapist explained. I shook my head no. After all, “religious trauma” should be an oxymoron, a paradox reserved for fairytales that don’t end so well. But she was right. We can, indeed, be damaged by the church. The more I thought about this ugly truth, the…
Having so many intense feelings is exhausting sometimes. In a world that praises stoicism, being overly emotional can make you feel like there’s something wrong with you, but what if your sensitivity is your superpower? Turns out, those big emotions come with some unexpected advantages. Let’s embrace the tears, the passionate outbursts, and the whole…
Criticism at work, from loved ones, even a random internet troll – it happens. Letting it derail you is counterproductive. The key is to separate your emotions from the actual content of the criticism. These genius phrases help you do just that, allowing you to extract useful feedback (if there is any!) or disengage from…
Fears aren’t just sources of anxiety; they’re coded messages. Understanding what drives your specific fears can uncover hidden motivations, insecurities, and even untapped potential. While it’s important to address fears that cause genuine distress, there’s also wisdom to be found in them. Let’s decode some common fears to reveal what your inner self might be…
