Phoebe Mertens

Phoebe Mertens is a writer, speaker, and strategist who has helped dozens of female-founded and led companies reach success in areas such a finance, tech, science, and fashion. Her keen eye for detail and her innovative approach to modern womanhood makes her one of the most sought-out in her industry, and there's nothing she loves more than to see these companies shine. With an MBA from NYU's Stern School of Business and features in Forbes and Fast Company she Phoebe has proven she knows her stuff. While she doesn't use social media, she does have a private Instagram just to look at pictures of cats.

16 Signs Your Adult Children May Be Taking Advantage of You

It’s not about the occasional request for help or temporary support—it’s about the pattern of behavior that slowly transforms parental generosity into exploitation. Here’s how to recognize when supporting your adult children has crossed the line into enabling dependency. 1. Your Retirement Plans Are Becoming Dreams When you look at your retirement accounts, the numbers…

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14 Ways a Lonely Childhood Shapes Who You Are as an Adult

When your earliest lessons about life came from keeping yourself company, it leaves fingerprints on every aspect of your adult personality. Here’s how those solitary hours of childhood continue to echo through your adult life—whether you recognize it or not. 1. You’re an Emotional Caretaker You’ve become exceptionally good at managing other people’s emotions because…

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15 Red Flags You’re in a Rollercoaster Relationship with a Manipulator

That nagging feeling in your gut isn’t just relationship anxiety—it’s your intuition sending you signals about something worse. Let’s talk about those subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs that you’re not just dealing with normal relationship ups and downs, but rather a carefully orchestrated emotional ride. 1. Love Bombing Is Their Go-To One day you’re being showered…

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14 Signs You and Your Partner are Total Opposites and Don’t Have What it Takes for the Long Haul

Let’s get real about compatibility beyond the whole “opposites attract” fairytale. While differences can create a spark, some fundamental oppositions signal a relationship that’s more about temporary excitement than lasting connection. Here are the deep-rooted incompatibilities that go beyond simple personality quirks. 1. You Have Different Approaches to the Future You live your life like…

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14 Telltale Signs You’re Only Pretending to Be Happy in Your Relationship

We’ve all heard that relationships take work, but there’s a difference between working on your relationship and working to convince yourself you’re happy in it. Let’s look into the signs that you might be performing contentment rather than actually experiencing it. 1. You Overcompensate on Social Media You spend more time making your relationship look…

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Powerful Principles Successful People from Humble Beginnings Live By

Everyone loves a good “started from the bottom” story, but what’s rarely discussed are the unwritten rules that guided these journeys. Let’s dive into the core principles that people who built success from scratch live by—not the Instagram-worthy quotes, but the real truths that transformed their lives. 1. The Discomfort Principle Successful people from modest…

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