Harper Stanley

Harper Stanley graduated from Eugene Lang College at The New School in NYC in 2006 with a degree in Media Studies and Literature and Critical Analysis. After graduating, she worked as an editorial assistant at The Atlantic before moving to the UK to work for the London Review of Books. When she's not waxing poetic about literature, she's writing articles about dating, relationships, and other women's lifestyle topics to help make their lives better. While shocking, she really has somehow managed to avoid joining any social media apps — a fact she's slightly smug about.

16 Reasons You’re Not Responsible for Anyone’s Happiness But Your Own

There’s a peculiar burden many of us carry: the weight of other people’s happiness. We bend ourselves into emotional pretzels trying to keep everyone around us content, fulfilled, and perpetually okay. It’s exhausting, impossible, and fundamentally wrong. Here’s the truth about why you need to stop carrying the emotional baggage that was never yours in…

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15 Ways to Support an Adult Child Stuck in a Toxic Relationship

When your adult child is in a toxic relationship, it’s heart-wrenching to watch from the sidelines. You see the red flags, notice the changes in their personality, and witness their shrinking world—but pushing too hard can make them retreat further into the relationship. Whether they’re dealing with emotional manipulation, financial abuse, or controlling behavior, your…

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Women Who Had Few Close Friends Growing Up Share These Awkward Traits

Most of us know that woman who seems slightly off-step with the natural rhythm of female friendship. She’s not unfriendly, just… different. While everyone’s swapping inside jokes and falling into easy conversation, she’s still trying to figure out the unwritten rules of girl code that everyone else somehow downloaded naturally in middle school. Here’s what…

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