Harper Stanley

Harper Stanley graduated from Eugene Lang College at The New School in NYC in 2006 with a degree in Media Studies and Literature and Critical Analysis. After graduating, she worked as an editorial assistant at The Atlantic before moving to the UK to work for the London Review of Books. When she's not waxing poetic about literature, she's writing articles about dating, relationships, and other women's lifestyle topics to help make their lives better. While shocking, she really has somehow managed to avoid joining any social media apps — a fact she's slightly smug about.

How To Recognize A Collapsed Narcissist: Signs & Symptoms

Narcissism is a complex personality trait that exists on a biiiiiig spectrum. While many of us are familiar with the grandiose, attention-seeking behavior of overt narcissists, there’s another, less obvious form: the collapsed narcissist. When a narcissist’s carefully constructed facade crumbles, they enter a state known as narcissistic collapse, according to Psychology Today. This can…

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15 Steps to Rebuild Trust After Infidelity (And Whether It’s Even Possible)

Infidelity can break even the strongest relationships. If you’re wondering whether it’s possible to rebuild trust after such a massive betrayal, you’re not alone. While there’s no guarantee, many couples have successfully worked through this and come out on the other side. Here’s a guide with 15 steps to help you rebuild trust after infidelity….

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