Harper Stanley

Harper Stanley graduated from Eugene Lang College at The New School in NYC in 2006 with a degree in Media Studies and Literature and Critical Analysis. After graduating, she worked as an editorial assistant at The Atlantic before moving to the UK to work for the London Review of Books. When she's not waxing poetic about literature, she's writing articles about dating, relationships, and other women's lifestyle topics to help make their lives better. While shocking, she really has somehow managed to avoid joining any social media apps — a fact she's slightly smug about.

Is Your Energy Off the Charts? 10 Clear Signs You’re an Enthusiastic Extrovert

According to Verywell Mind, extroverts are known for their charmingly outgoing personalities, but this personality type definitely isn’t one size fits all. In fact, there are some enthusiastic extroverts out there who are even more dynamic than their fellow social butterflies. Here’s how to recognize them in the wild. 1. You’re the Lifeblood of Group…

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Caught In An Unbalanced Relationship? Here Are 15 Mistakes You’re Likely Making

Relationships are supposed to be partnerships, but what happens when you find yourself doing all the heavy lifting? If you’re caught in an unbalanced relationship, you might feel like you’re constantly giving while your partner is mostly taking. It’s exhausting, frustrating, and unfortunately, all too common. But here’s the thing: sometimes, without realizing it, we…

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If He’s Doing These 16 Things, He’s Not Seeing You as a Person

Relationships can be tricky to navigate. But there’s one non-negotiable: being treated like a whole, complex, valuable human being. If you’ve ever had that weird feeling that something’s off in your relationship, this list might shed some light. Here are 2160 signs that your partner might not be seeing you as the fantastic, multi-faceted person…

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14 Signs You’re Exceptionally Good At Recognizing Manipulative Behavior

Ever walked away from a conversation feeling confused or unsettled, like something was just… off? Maybe a friend’s guilt trip seemed over the top, or a coworker’s “innocent” questions felt like a trap. You’re not imagining things! You might have a natural knack for spotting manipulative behavior. While manipulators love an easy target, your ability…

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