Emma Mills

Originally from Australia, Emma Mills graduated from the University of Queensland with a dual degree in Philosophy and Applied Linguistics before moving to Los Angeles to become a professional matchmaker (a bit of a shift, obviously). Since 2015, she has helped more than 150 people find lasting love and remains passionate about bringing amazing singletons together. Emma is also the author of the upcoming Hachette publication, "Off the Beaten Track: Finding Lasting Love in the Least Likely of Places," due out in January 2025.

The Devastating Impact of Growing Up as the Least Favorite Child

Being the least favorite child isn’t just about getting fewer Christmas presents or hand-me-down clothes—it’s an emotional burden that carves deep grooves into your psyche that can last a lifetime. While most parents publicly deny having favorites, the subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) dynamics of preferential treatment leave lasting scars that shape how you move through…

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13 Toxic Habits of Men Who Are Bad Husbands

Behind every divorce filing and emotionally exhausted wife, there’s usually a pattern of behaviors that corroded the marriage from the inside out. While these men often genuinely believe they’re “good guys” who are just “misunderstood,” their actions tell a different story. Here’s a brutal look at the habits that turn wedding rings into golden handcuffs….

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15 Self-Destructive Behaviors You Need to Break So You Can Thrive, Not Just Survive

Most of us are running sophisticated operations of self-sabotage with the efficiency of a Fortune 500 company. We’ve got departments dedicated to overthinking, facilities manufacturing fresh anxieties, and a C-suite of inner critics working overtime. The good news? Once you recognize these patterns, you can begin the process of conscious restructuring. It’s time to rebuild….

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15 Survival Strategies for Navigating a Marriage with an Emotionally Stunted Partner

Being married to someone whose emotional range makes a pet rock look expressive is difficult. They think “feelings” is a fancy word for weakness and respond to emotional conversations like they’re being waterboarded. If you’re married to this type, here’s how to survive without losing your sanity or becoming as emotionally constipated as they are….

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14 Uncomfortable Conversations Every Couple Needs to Have if They Want Their Marriage to Work

Marriage isn’t just about love—it’s about having the hard conversations that most couples avoid until they become catastrophes. Here’s your guide to the discussions no one wants to have but everyone needs to. 1. The Money Talk Not just about who pays for what, but the deep stuff—their relationship with money, childhood financial trauma, secret…

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How to Tell a Know-It-All to Stop Giving You Advice You Didn’t Ask For

Life’s too short to endure endless lectures from self-appointed experts who think their every thought is a precious gift to humanity. Here’s what you can and should quit tolerating from know-it-alls—because you’re too experienced for this nonsense. 1. The “Actually…” Syndrome Time to quit politely nodding while they correct every detail of your story. You…

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