The Bible often gets painted as a giant book of “thou shalt nots,” but the truth is, a lot of those supposed “sins” are based on misunderstandings, outdated context, or prioritizing rules over the heart of the message. Let’s clear some things up. 1. You can totally get a tattoo — and piercings too! A…
We’ve all made some seriously dumb decisions in life, some of us more than others. However, instead of owning those cringe-worthy moments, our brains invent some hilarious (and sometimes wildly inaccurate) excuses. Here are some of the classic justifications you probably make for your silly mistakes. Recognize them, and you’re one step closer to ditching…
Remember those Sunday school mornings, or Friday night temple services? For many, religion was a cornerstone of growing up. But these days, a growing number of people are opting out altogether, according to data from Pew Research Center. Is it changing values, disillusionment, or something else entirely? Here are some frank reasons why people are…
We picture the woman who overextends herself, always putting everyone first. However, the truth is far more complicated. Men are also socialized to please, just in different ways. Fear of disapproval, the need to be liked, and outdated masculinity norms can trap them in a cycle of harmful self-sacrifice. Here are some of the reasons…
We all want to have those persuasive, convincing moments where we win arguments, but sometimes we end up sabotaging ourselves with some seriously unhelpful habits. Here are some of the most common missteps that can wreck your chances in a disagreement. 1. Making it personal Attacking the person, not their idea, is a quick way…
According to Thriveworks, narcissists are masters of manipulation, and their tactics aren’t always the cliché screaming fits you see in movies. To really throw you for a loop, they’ve got a whole toolbox of subtle tricks that might leave you feeling confused and off-balance. Here’s a breakdown of the lesser-known control tactics they use. The…
Having siblings is great and all, but if you were an only child, you probably didn’t realize that you had so many things to be thankful for. Yes, you were lonely at times and maybe you felt jealous of friends who had brothers and sisters, but there are lots of perks to being in the…
We all know that guy – the one who’s always complaining about his circumstances, blaming everyone else for his failures, and never seems to catch a break. While luck might play a small role, it’s often their own habits that are holding them back. Here are some common traits of those who struggle to move…
Just because you’re grown up doesn’t mean sibling rivalry magically disappears. If you’re still butting heads with your brother or sister, try these 15 strategies to keep the peace and your sanity. Not only will it make your parents happier, but it’ll make holidays and other family gatherings a lot less painful if you can…
Constantly worrying about what others think of you is like carrying around a backpack full of rocks – it’s heavy, exhausting, and totally unnecessary. It’s time to ditch that baggage and embrace your authentic self. Seriously, life’s too short to live for the approval of others. Ready to break free from the shackles of other…
