Ego and self-promotion are rewarded more than ever these days. We live in a world where loud and boisterous people get rewarded for standing out, so it’s refreshing when you meet someone who goes out of their way to be humble. Here are 15 attitudes that you’ll only find in exceptionally humble people.
1. They know how to be vulnerable.
Boisterous people are completely unwilling to show vulnerability. They view it as a weakness, and as a result, they never open themselves up. However, humble people are always willing to be vulnerable. They understand that being open about their feelings is not a weakness but a strength. As Psychology Today notes, their willingness to be vulnerable allows them to connect with people on a deeper level.
2. They’re always patient.
We live in a world where instant gratification is deeply ingrained in our everyday lives. With TikTok and other forms of social media making it easier than ever to have constant stimulation, it takes a special kind of person to be alone with their thoughts and wait for something to happen. Humble people, more than anyone else, are able to be patient. They recognize that not everything happens on a schedule and embrace waiting. They value the journey and enjoy it as much as they do reaching the destination.
3. They love to boost people’s confidence.
Humble people don’t always need to be the center of attention. As a result, they’re willing to take the time to lift people up. They recognize the achievements of their friends and family and praise them for it. They support the dreams and aspirations of their loved ones and do what they can to support them.
4. They understand their strengths and weaknesses.
When someone isn’t humble, they think they’re good at everything. They don’t acknowledge their weaknesses because they don’t think they have any. Humble people understand it’s impossible to be good at everything. They recognize what they’re good at, and what they aren’t. So, they’re able to learn and grow as people.
5. They’ve found inner peace in life’s chaos.
Humble people have found inner peace within life’s chaos. They can keep a clear mind and aren’t easily shaken by external problems. They have inner peace, and as a result, they have an easier time navigating life’s challenges.
6. They’re all about self-love.
Being all about self-love might not be something you immediately think of in a humble person. Instead, you might think that’s what an egotistical person would be all about. However, the type of self-love humble people have is very different. Humble people recognize their faults and love themselves anyway. They accept that they aren’t perfect and continue to love themselves.
7. They stay calm in crazy moments.
Life is chaotic, and in that chaos, you need to navigate life’s challenges. Humble people are great at handling stress and adversity. They stay composed when things look like they’re crumbling all around them. They’re great at problem-solving and taking leadership positions in difficult times.
8. They always want to learn more.
People with big egos don’t strive to learn new things. They blindly assume they know everything and if they don’t know something, they don’t think it’s important. Humble people recognize that they aren’t experts in everything and always strive to learn more. They’re hungry for knowledge and always seek new experiences.
9. They embrace diversity and encourage inclusivity.
Humble people are more accepting of other people, regardless of differences. As a result, they’re more supportive of diversity and inclusivity. They want to learn about other people’s cultures and be friends with many different types of people. Their genuine curiosity about the world’s diversity leads to more enriched experiences.
10. They handle conflict head-on with ease.
Conflict doesn’t faze humble people. They’re peacemakers who seek to bring people together when tension arises. They can diffuse conflict by creating a positive atmosphere and encouraging everyone to speak about their feelings.
11. They try to have a positive impact on the world.
Humble people recognize the problems in the world and try to make a difference. They’re often activists who do what they can to advocate for the causes they believe in. They use their humanity and empathy to drive positive change in the world.
12. They’re resilient.
Humble people bounce back from setbacks better than other people. Not only do they bounce back, but they come back stronger because they learn from their mistakes. They look at adversity as an opportunity for personal growth. They use these experiences to reach new heights and inspire other people with their resilience.
13. They accept feedback.
Humble people are more willing to accept feedback from other people when they make mistakes. In fact, they aren’t just willing to accept feedback, they actively seek it out. Even if they do something right, they ask if there’s anything they could’ve done better for next time.
14. They take responsibility for mistakes.
Humble people never blame people for their mistakes. They always take responsibility for their actions or failures. They don’t try to pass blame over to anyone else.
15. They’re situationally aware of their surroundings.
Boisterous people are usually completely unaware when they’re doing things that make people uncomfortable. Humble people understand that you can’t act the same way around everyone. Different people have different types of humor and humble people recognize that so they don’t make things awkward for anyone.
