There’s a lot of fear surrounding the idea of opening up, especially for men. There’s a misconception that vulnerability is weak, but what if I told you that it can actually be powerful? Opening up to others around you can have a lot of benefits for your career, friendships, or relationships. It can improve your interactions, deepen your bond with others, and even improve how you see yourself. If you are interested to see what superpowers vulnerability can give you as a man, read on.
1. They don’t have to hide.
When you choose to be vulnerable, you decide that the real you is worth seeing, flaws and all. Many men hide their true feelings for fear of being judged, but imagine how freeing it would be not to care so much.
2. They’re more adventurous.
The power of deciding to be authentically yourself means that no matter what you do, the person you are is secure. Whether going to an event that sits right in their comfort zone or a dance lesson when they have two left feet, vulnerable men are more willing to take it all in stride.
3. They don’t sweat the small stuff.
Spilling your drink in a bar is embarrassing, but letting it ruin your night is way more embarrassing. Vulnerable men are the type to apologize to anyone in the splash zone and laugh it off. We all make mistakes, and being vulnerable means we don’t have to fear life’s little setbacks.
4. They’re more confident.
What could be better for your confidence than letting go of that long-held fear of not being good enough as you are? Vulnerability won’t fix what you don’t like about yourself, but it will help you feel more comfortable expressing yourself regardless.
5. They own their success and failures.
Vulnerable men are not afraid to claim themselves on good or bad days. They are comfortable being seen in any light, which means it’s easy for them to admit when they’re wrong or claim glory when they’re right.
6. They’re unafraid to get up close and personal with a partner.
Vulnerability is the cornerstone of intimacy, and men who are comfortable with the former tend to do better. Some men might not be willing to open up, and this pushes a partner away, but as a tip, vulnerability is sexy and helps a partner feel closer to you.
7. They’re better lovers.
Speaking of intimacy, vulnerable men are getting more out of their sex lives. Being willing to let down your walls and invite genuine connections means you can have better relations. Moreover, it allows you or your partner’s wildest fantasies to come to light, and what could be better than that?
8. They have better emotional intelligence.
Learning to be vulnerable requires a lot of self-reflection and self-acceptance. You must look into yourself, cultivate acceptance for every part of you, and confidently bring it to the world. This process of self-examination can make men more emotionally intelligent than their less vulnerable counterparts.
9. They inspire others to be more vulnerable.
Vulnerability is contagious, and it’s because vulnerable people know how difficult being authentic can be. Vulnerable people are less judgmental, and their honest approach to feelings can inspire others to do the same.
10. They’re true to themselves.
Not everyone will love you, and that’s okay. Even if it hurts these men to lose a friend or partner because of being themselves, they know they weren’t worth keeping if they had to compromise their values and morals to keep them.
11. They tend to be more thoughtful.
Men who share their authentic truth will look for reciprocation from the women in their lives. When a man is vulnerable, the lady in his life feels more comfortable opening up, which can lead to him knowing her better. Knowing her preferences means he won’t struggle to get a thoughtful birthday gift or plan a memorable date night.
12. They’re better communicators.
To create the perfect communication cocktail, you need vulnerability, self-awareness, and willingness to be honest about one’s feelings. When you have all these things, communication flows like water, and there is more deep communication, more frequent check-ins, and fewer conflicts.
13. They’re not caught up with old ways of thinking.
For years, men have been forced to be overly masculine and macho, but it’s time to let that way of thinking go. Many men have been following an outdated relationship code, and we all know it doesn’t work. Men willing to be vulnerable are changing the conversation and demonstrating a progressive mindset; they understand that the old way isn’t the only way.
14. They’re more honest.
Unsurprisingly, making peace with letting yourself be seen means that you don’t need to lie or craft a false personality to be liked. Vulnerable men wear their hearts on their sleeves, and this comes through in their habits, communication, and interactions with others.
15. They’re willing to share their life with you.
Men comfortable with vulnerability often look for opportunities to go deep with the special people in their lives. Whether introducing a partner to their friends and family or letting a friend see his novice art project, these men will let you see all the wonderful, messy, and unique parts of themselves, which is truly powerful.
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