So, you’ve met a cool guy who wears a cross necklace and quotes scripture sometimes. You’re intrigued, but you wonder how his faith might influence your relationship. Great question, we have that answer: Here are 16 things some Christian men might do differently in a relationship.
1. He deals with conflict differently
Nobody likes arguments, but they happen. Since Christian principles emphasize forgiveness and reconciliation, he might approach disagreements with a calm demeanor and a genuine desire to understand your perspective. Picture this: instead of yelling matches, you have open and honest conversations where you listen to each other and try to find solutions together. Sounds pretty good, right?
2. Sunday services are a non-negotiable
Get ready for early Sunday mornings! Why? Church attendance is probably a regular part of his routine. So be prepared for inspiring sermons followed by a potential post-service brunch date—after all, all that worshipping has made you both hungry.
3. He’s emotionally mature
Being vulnerable isn’t a weakness; it’s a strength and Christian men prioritize emotional intimacy as much as physical intimacy in their relationship. They make time to connect on a deep level, sharing their thoughts, fears, and dreams with their partners because they know it’s the glue that holds it all together.
4. He values service first
He might be passionate about volunteering, helping those in need, or finding ways to give back to the community and it’s likely he wants a partner who will join in on his crusade for kindness. This probably will also extend to the relationship as well, where his love language for acts of service leads him to prioritize your needs and wellbeing.
5. Date nights have a spiritual spin
Forget just Netflix and chill (although that has its place too!). Movie nights might be swapped for attending church events together, volunteering for a cause you both care about, or joining a young couples’ group at his church. It’s a way to connect, explore your faith together, and maybe even meet some cool couples who share your values.
6. He might want to wait until marriage
This is a big one, and every couple needs to decide what works for them. Some Christian men might choose to wait for marriage before getting intimate. Open communication and respecting each other’s beliefs are key to navigating this conversation with love and understanding.
7. He’s open to premarital counseling
Getting hitched is a big deal and he might see premarital counseling as a productive step towards a strong marriage. It’s a chance to discuss important topics like finances, communication styles, and even your expectations for family life. Think of it as a relationship tune-up before you take the plunge—a chance to identify any potential bumps in the road and avoid unnecessary stress down the line.
8. He might be eco-conscious
Some Christian teachings promote responsible living and caring for the environment. So, depending on what he believes, he might be mindful of recycling, avoid excessive spending, or prioritize financial responsibility. The good news: these are all values that could translate into a stable and secure relationship. Think of it as a partner who’s conscious of his impact on the world and committed to building a future together.
9. Family plays a big role in the relationship
There’s a good chance that family is a big deal for him. Sunday dinners at his parents’ house could become a regular thing and he may want to incorporate your family, too. When you’re in a relationship with him, you gain another family—what could be better than that?
10. He’ll always go back to his faith when times get tough
Life throws curveballs sometimes. When that happens, he’ll probably find comfort in prayer, seek guidance from religious leaders, or draw on the support of his community. That’s a good thing—this strong foundational support system provides a sense of stability and purpose for him and your relationship.
11. He leans on his spiritual leaders
It wouldn’t be out of the question for him to seek guidance from pastors, priests, or other religious leaders on personal matters or relationship advice. Sure, he’ll want to come to you for support as well, but it’s important you also respect his connection with these important figures in his life.
12. He might prioritize tithing
Tithing, or donating 10% of your income to the church, is important to some Christians. If it is to him, it might be a part of his financial plan. But don’t feel pressured to follow suit unless you share the same belief—respect his choices and have an open conversation about your own financial goals
13. He’ll always give you the benefit of the doubt
We all make mistakes, but some Christian beliefs emphasize giving grace and forgiveness. He might be more willing to forgive mistakes and offer second chances, believing and emphasizing giving grace. A partner who gives you the benefit of the doubt, is willing to move forward, and believes in your potential to grow together? Sign us up.
14. Your favorite song together will be inspirational
Expect playlists filled with faith-based tunes, or spontaneous singing along to uplifting worship songs in the car. This will be the soundtrack to your relationship and a chance to connect on a spiritual level and maybe even discover some new music you both enjoy.
15. He’s great with boundaries
Christian men understand the physical, emotional, and spiritual boundaries of their partners. He won’t push past your boundaries, but instead, he’ll honor them—his faith has taught him well that it’s essential for a relationship built on mutual trust and respect.
16. He sees gratitude as a choice
He knows that it’s not just a feeling. A Christian man in a relationship will express gratitude and appreciation for their partner often—whether it’s a simple thank you for the little things or a heartfelt acknowledgment for who you are as a person. His gratitude is one of the most attractive things about him.
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