You don’t have to be a ten to be attractive. We’ve all heard that looks aren’t everything. So, here are other things about people that give off attractive vibes and make them worth paying attention to, even if their looks are average.
1. They have a sense of humor.
There are plenty of people out there who are attracted to wit and humor rather than looks. If someone is funny, meaning they make people laugh and can tell a good joke, that puts them a few notches higher on the attractiveness scale. People who can make us laugh add joy to our lives.
2. They avoid self-deprecating humor.
However, self-deprecating humor isn’t as funny. People are more attractive if they’re funny without making fun of themselves—someone who tends to use themselves as the punchline will come off as lacking confidence.
3. They are confident.
That being said, confidence is another thing that makes a person appear more attractive. They have a light about them that shows they’re happy in their own skin. People who are self-confident walk with more grace and talk with more pride. Their confidence rubs off on others, too.
4. They seem to always have a smile on their faces.
Smiling has a way of making some people more attractive. Perhaps it’s the flash of their pearly whites, or maybe because they seem happy, and happy people are a bit more attractive than sad or angry people. If you don’t like your smile, spend some time practicing. A genuine smile always looks better than a fake one!
5. They express gratitude.
People who are grateful for the things they have in life are more beautiful on the inside and the outside. They exude a positivity that people who aren’t regularly grateful miss out on. It’s hard to be angry and grumpy when you’re full of gratitude.
6. They’re giving.
When someone is very giving and caring, they’re more attractive. They stand out to others more because of their friendly nature. Someone who only takes things from you can be ugly, even if they’re knock-out gorgeous, while an average person who shows care and nurturing toward you can seem like a beauty queen.
7. They stand up tall.
People with good posture exude confidence, and average-looking folks who want to stand out in the crowd make themselves more noticeable by walking and sitting with correct posture. Sitting up straight and walking tall are pretty easy things to do when you think about it. We could all gain a little more confidence this way.
8. They make eye contact when they talk to you.
Do you know what’s attractive? Someone who listens to you, and you know they’re listening. Moderately attractive people become more attractive when they give you their full attention. You know they’re listening and not busy thinking of their responses because they’re looking you straight in the eyes as if they are enthralled with every word you say.
9. They like to look and feel good.
Even the prettiest people can appear less attractive if they do not care for themselves. A less attractive person may look more attractive because they practice good hygiene and take the time to put together stylish outfits, take care of their complexion, and keep their hair coiffed and trimmed.
10. They listen intently.
There’s more to listening than just making eye contact. A person who can repeat back things you’ve said to them, ask the right questions to keep the conversation going, and isn’t afraid to let the conversation be about you rather than them is far more attractive than someone who isn’t hearing a word you’re saying while you’re spilling your guts to them.
11. They’re passionate about the things they love.
Anyone can seem more attractive when they gushingly describe something they’re passionate about. The look of happiness on their faces and the words that come out of their mouths about how much they love what they do and how it makes them feel are enough to make anyone cheer them on.
12. They’re polite but not overly so.
Politeness is attractive if you don’t come off as a pushover. Holding the door for someone, offering to help when help is needed, and saying “please” and “thank you” are attractive ways to be polite. Doing everything for someone else will get you used.
13. They aren’t afraid to be themselves.
Someone comfortable not only in their own skin but also in their own head is attractive. They have gotten past the need to fit in and be chameleons to the place where even their odd traits make them seem more interesting and worth getting to know.
14. They’re always striving to better themselves.
People who work toward being a better version of themselves each day are unparalleled in attractiveness. They don’t settle for second best, but they are also connected enough with their own emotional intelligence to know that their best can vary every day.
15. They’re respectful.
A respectful person is always more attractive in looks and temperament than someone being disrespectful. There is an ugliness to being disrespectful that even the best-looking people can’t hide from.
16. They try to be patient.
You may have noticed that you like people who are patient with you more than those who aren’t. A pushy person who is trying to rush you seems more ugly on the inside. People willing to let you take your time are more attractive because they’re more understanding.
17. They are great communicators.
Average-looking people who know how to communicate offer a better companion than a pretty person who doesn’t. Not always, but many pretty people tend to talk about themselves, where a great communicator will balance the conversation so you both get a chance to talk.
18. They have an open mind.
Open-minded people are more attractive than people with closed minds unless you’re closed-minded. Someone with an open mind will take the time to understand you better. While they may have their own stances on things, they enjoy listening to other people’s opinions.
19. They’re incredibly supportive.
Feeling supported by someone makes them seem attractive because they make you feel more loved and cared for. You know this amazing person will be there for you in your time of need and when you want to celebrate.
20. They love experimenting.
People who love experimenting and multiple aspects of life are more fun and exciting. They quickly adapt to new situations and try new things, like fashion, food, and hobbies. They let stress roll off their shoulders and move on to the next thing without a second thought because trying something different brings them joy.
21. They want everyone to be happy.
When someone tries to ensure everyone they spend time with is having fun and is happy, that person becomes one of the best people to spend time with. They’re attractive to other people because those people know they’ll get to laugh and enjoy their time together.
